Alright, so here’s some super basic info for anyone who’s clueless like me about one of the most important things when it comes to sex—condoms! Seriously, if you’re gonna be doing anything, you gotta know about these. They’re like the ultimate protection against STIs and unplanned pregnancies. Basically, a condom is a thin cover you roll onto, well, you know, that part, before sex. It catches all the stuff you don’t want spreading around, like infections or sperm. Oh, and they come in different sizes, materials, and even flavors (yeah, flavors—weird, right?). Just make sure you use one every single time, because skipping it is a big no-no. Trust me, it’s way better to be safe than sorry!
It’s kinda awkward for unmarried people to talk about stuff like sexual health or family planning. It’s just how our culture is—super conservative. People don’t really like young folks talking about sex, so everyone stays quiet about it, and that means a lot of us don’t get the advice we need. But now, at school, we’re starting to learn about sexual health in class, which is cool. We’re learning about STIs and stuff, like how if you don’t use a condom during sex, you could get an STI. My teacher also said girls should stay virgins until they’re married because they’re too young otherwise. Families usually tell us not to have sex before marriage, but they focus more on the girls. For guys, it’s easier—they can just use condoms. There’s this youth health clinic that hands out, like, 3,000 condoms every month, and it’s not just for the people who go there. My friends grab a bunch and share them at school too. Actually, my friends gave me some packs yesterday, and, uh, I tried one out tonight. Just experimenting, you know?
Comeback discussing sex, my country has one of the youngest populations in south-east Asia, with more than 60% of the population aged under twenty-four, and also has the highest adolescent birth rates in East Asia and the Pacific – almost one in 10 girls aged 15 to 19 have given birth. Honestly, attitudes discouraging young people from talking about sex have contributed to silence on the issue, preventing us from receiving the advice we need. It is conservative, our culture. We are not that innocent about sex anymore. I have access to the internet which means I have accidentally or out of curiosity seen porn. I can see sex in movies and advertisements. My smartphones make sharing and accessing pornographic material easier. I know a lot of students who are studying in college are going to have sex anyway, but many of them may have no ability to get condoms on their own or are too embarrassed to do so. (Me too) Although my country is aiming to teach us about sexual health and family planning, schools have tampons for girls when they forget their own. But they did not have condoms for boys in secondary school. I think that there is no reason we shouldn’t have a “rubber”?!!
In my country where most people were uneasy discussing sex. When people want a condom, they don’t call it a condom. Instead, they refer to it by the name of “rubbers “. So, some Organizations often pushed the conversation out into the open about the topic of condoms, teenage pregnancies, or sex talk and give out condoms in factories, and even fields. Today I and my friends received some boxes of condoms from a young man. I guess he is about 20s. He said that I can use condom to promote what family planning is supposed to be, and it generated interest. I could use it as a balloon. 🤣🤣🤣
Today, I went for my usual walk in the park near my house. It’s one of my favorite ways to unwind, surrounded by nature, breathing in the fresh air. The park is generally tranquil, with just the sounds of kids playing or ducks quacking by the pond. There’s a playground, some benches, and it’s all quite serene.
However, today’s walk took an unexpected turn. As I strolled along the path, something shiny and odd caught my eye on the ground. I thought it was just some litter at first, so I bent down to pick it up. To my utter disgust, it turned out to be a used condom. I dropped it right away, feeling sick to my stomach. Who would think to leave such things in a public space?
Looking around, I noticed there were more condoms, some still in wrappers, others discarded after use, along with pieces of stained underwear scattered across the grass. It seemed like a lot of people had turned this peaceful park into their private bedroom.
While I understand that some might enjoy the thrill of public spaces, for me, it’s just not the same. I prefer comfort and privacy, like in a bed. It makes me wonder if others have had similar experiences outdoors.
Tonight, I did something that might seem a bit strange to some, I figured it was time to take care of myself… and my burgeoning sex life. I stopped by the convenience store near my high school and picked up a box of condoms. Once home in my dorm room, I decided to put them to use… for practice purposes only, of course! No one else needs to know about this little experiment just yet. So here goes…
As I went through my usual routine, something unexpected caught my eye and got me thinking about the complexities of human relationships and the choices we make. It was such a simple sight, but it struck me hard—a discarded pack of condoms sitting in a trash can in a public restroom. I found myself lost in thought, wondering about the story behind them. Who had used them? Was it a spontaneous hookup, a passionate night spent together, or a meticulously planned evening of intimacy? Maybe it was all about love, a rush of desire, or just plain old safety. The possibilities swirling in my mind felt endless, and I couldn’t shake the curiosity.
Today was supposed to be a nice fishing trip, but I stumbled upon something unexpected in the river—a condom. Not exactly what I was hoping to find while enjoying nature! It got me thinking, though. I know it’s a bit of an odd question, but how are you supposed to properly dispose of used condoms? I mean, I get that it’s not the most glamorous topic, but it feels like something worth knowing. Anyway, the fishing was decent, but that little find definitely added an interesting twist to the day!
Today was an exciting day at our school as we had the privilege of hosting a renowned transnational organization that specializes in providing comprehensive sex education programs. The atmosphere was abuzz with anticipation as students eagerly gathered in the auditorium for this much-anticipated event. One of the highlights of the program was the distribution of condoms. Designed to emphasize the importance of safe and responsible sexual practices, the organization ensured that each student received a pack containing high-quality condoms. Alongside this generous provision, they dedicated ample time to explaining the correct usage and role of condoms in preventing sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unplanned pregnancies. It was kinda awkward, but also really informative.
Some enjoyable moments 